I believe this is a situation where the user should bend to the system rather than vice-versa. I see no rational reason why any system should cater for someone failing to use it properly. Unless you have a valid format where dates are entered that way of course, but I know of nowhere that would be the case.
zmbd:
Keep in mind that no matter where in the world you are, internally Access will ALWAYS handle dates in #MM/DD/YYYY# format - in tables, code, etc... it's been a source of errors in numerous posts from locations outside of the USA.
I'm not sure I follow you. Internally dates are stored as floating point numbers. Display formats are not in any way relevant to how data is stored.
Alternatively, #mm/dd/yyyy# formats are also not universally supported. An example is here in the UK. Date entry in a form will recognise dd/mm/yyyy where possible to interpret that way and only use mm/dd/yyyy when it cannot.
EG. 1/8/2022 will be treated here as 1st August 2022 rather than 8th January as it would be across the pond. Where you see the overlap is for something like 1/13/2022 which, even here, is recognised as impossible when interpreted as dd/mm/yyyy, so is automatically translated to mm/dd/yyyy.
More on dates etc can be found at
Literal DateTimes and Their Delimiters (#).