Inserting values into sql dbase from a dropdownlist control

[Chumley the Walrus]

I'm trying to add a drop down list to my data insertion script, using
the sqlparamter object . The form coding on the web page:
<asp:dropdownli st id="frmstate" runat="server">
<asp:ListItem Value="nv" Selected="True" >-</asp:ListItem>
<asp:ListItem Value="az">ariz ona</asp:ListItem>
<asp:ListItem Value="ca">cal</asp:ListItem>
<asp:ListItem Value="or">oreg on</asp:ListItem>

</asp:dropdownlis t>

....and the process example i'm using below to insert the data and
bind it:
cmd.Parameters. Add(New SQLParameter("@ state", frmstate.item.k ey))
cmd.Parameters. Add(New SQLParameter("@ city", frmcity.text))

....getting an error on the @state line, as "item" is not a member of
'System.Web.UI. WebControls.Dro pDownList' - just wondering what syntax
to use for frmstate.item.k ey , as using .text along with asp:textbox
controls is working fine for me.

thanks in advance
chumley