help needed with extracting XML data

[Lokean]

I have an XML file that looks like this...

<Tag1>
<TagType ref="MyItem"/>
<TagRPU ref="MyCom"/>
<ItemName>Z2R74</ItemName>
<ItemPassword>MyPassword</ItemPassword>
<ItemNumber>Z2R74</SerialNumber>
<Description>My Thingamajig</Description>
</Tag1>

I've tried OPENXML, but I can only get output of EITHER the elements OR the attributes.

SELECT *
FROM OPENXML(@docHandle, '//',1)

with (ref varchar (4000), ItemName varchar(4000))

but I get all nulls for ItemName.

If I use

SELECT *
FROM OPENXML(@docHandle, '//',2)

with (ref varchar (4000), ItemName varchar(4000))

I get ItemName, but all nulls for ref...

I need to get both in one query....

I am not very skilled in SQL, can someone help or point me to a good article?

Thanks.