Software caused connection abort

Hello to everybody i am new to this forum and i have an important problem with sql statements in my website.

why do i get these error messages , can anybody tell me;
--> com.mysql.jdbc.PreparedStatement@1f11507: select news_id,DATE_FORMAT(news_date ,'%d %m %y')as Hmerominia , news_title, news_decr from news
sql error:java.sql.SQLException: Communication link failure: java.net.SocketException, underlying cause: Software caused connection abort: recv failed

** BEGIN NESTED EXCEPTION **

java.net.SocketException
MESSAGE: Software caused connection abort: recv failed

STACKTRACE:

java.net.SocketException: Software caused connection abort: recv failed

is it a problem off mysql or java or am i doing sth wrong?

how can i solve it. can anybody helppp meee pls;