Ben C <spamspam@spam.eggs> writes:[color=blue]
> On 2006-03-26, Rod Pemberton <do_not_have@sorry.bitbuck.cmm> wrote:[color=green]
>>
>> "Martin Ambuhl" <mambuhl@earthlink.net> wrote in message
>> news:lehVf.17705$S25.15805@newsread1.news.atl.eart hlink.net...[color=darkred]
>>> >
>>> > Thanks in advance for any explanations.
>>>
>>> Bill collectors write "thanks in advance." It is language used to
>>> create dominance in the expectation of compliance. Polite human beings
>>> do not use it.[/color]
>>
>> Wow. And, Plauger told me, "My, you do have a twisty way of thinking, don't
>> you?"
>>
>> I may not be the correct person from your perspective to defend BenC, but, I
>> haven't seen a harsh word yet. I'd say it's a polite statement and nothing
>> more.[/color]
>
> Thank you! Certainly no implication of dominance or compliance was
> intended, I am sorry if anyone took it that way.[/color]
Some people are offended by the phrase "thanks in advance", thinking
it implies some sort of obligation. Others (myself included) don't
think it's at all a big deal. (I occasionally use "AtDhVaAnNkCsE"
myself.) I suggest that those who use the term should probably avoid
it, and those who are offended by it should consider that it's
probably not meant to be offensive.
--
Keith Thompson (The_Other_Keith)
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